Friday, November 21, 2008

The Point Of Life

I was laying around thinking and something came to me. What's the point of life? Some say the point is to better yourself, to live it, to be happy, to make others happy and so on. So I sat there for at least 7 hours thinking about this. I couldn't come up with a reason. I still can't, but I've come up with a pretty good answer to that question that is asked ever so much.
To me, the point of life is what we make it. I personally see life as a chance to learn, better yourself and the people around you, and to be happy. In the past 2 years of my life, I've finally understood a lot of things: girls, religion, some of politics, people, and so on. I've learned that no matter what everyone says they aren't happy. And that really makes me mad, how can you not be happy with life? Sure everyone has those reasons but then again everyone picks out the bad in everything. Look at the good in it. Friends, family, memories and so on. In the past year i've changed so much. I've changed in a really good way I think. I aspire to help anyone and everyone I can. I want people to come too me for advice and help. I want to reach out to those who need it. I'll help friends, foes, and even complete strangers. I just want to see everyone around me happy no matter what the cost is. I put everyone before me. Some say it's a weakness, I say it's a blessing.

Gays, And Everything They Come With

Everyone has their own opinions on Gay marriage and Gay rights. Different people, different beliefs. My opinion on all of this is that it shouldn't matter. Sure there are all the religions out there that say that's not how god wants us to be. Or that's not how we're supposed to work and so on. But for those with the religious beliefs that say marriage should be between man and woman, and that God made us to be with the opposite sex. God made everyone the way they are. Being gay or lesbian or even bi isn't a choice for anyone. If you believe God made us all the way we are then what's wrong with God making some people gay or lesbian? None of this is any one's choice. Sure you can be gay and hide it, but that doesn't mean you're straight. It means you're afraid of who you really are. But for anyone who still thinks gay marriage is against their beliefs please tell me why and give me good reasons. Not the usual it's not how God made us. Because if it wasn't how God made us then why were they made gay? Also, what does it have to do with you? It's not like he or she are marrying you. It's not like you're somehow involved with them. Just let people be what they are. You can't control some of the things about yourself. They can't help the fact they're gay. So just let it be. Worry about your own marriage or your own relationship. Let them be happy and be happy with yourself.

You'll Find Them

This is for the boys and girls, the boys and girls who're tired of getting heartbroken and completely fucked over. Just read this, trust me on all of this. Even if you don't know me, get to know me and then maybe you can trust me on it.

First, the girls:
Yeah i get it, almost every guy out there is a huge ass hole. but don't' give up, i promise you that through all of it you'll find that one guy. Yeah you may be sitting here and saying, "what kind of bull shit is this guy talking about?!" but it's not bull shit. It's the truth. you just can't can't give up because of a bunch of stupid guys. You gotta keep looking, look in places you'd never thought you would look. Search for the actual good hearted guys out there. Trust me, they'll be glad to take you into their hearts. Whether it's as a friend or more. Just don't give up and don't stop looking. When you get down and completely confused and screwed. You have your friends to help you with this stuff. Or even come to me. I'd be glad to help you out. Just remember, there's a guy out there for you that you'll absolutely love. You'll think he's an amazing guy and you'll be happy.


For the guys:
Guys, why do you have to be such self-centered ass holes? yeah i know there are guys who aren't even close to being like that. And we should all take a page or two outta their book. Girls get enough shit from us come on now. yeah girls are confusing and can be really bitchy sometimes. but us guys the majority of the time can be huge ass holes. Yeah we get shit too, but that doesn't mean you have to deal it back. Just blow it off, she's not worth your time if she's gonna be like that. Just keep looking and don't be a dick. Trust me you'll find a girl, i can tell you that pretty much every girl out there is looking for a good guy. not an ass hole. So just find a girl, keep her happy. you'll be happy to. i promise.


So, in the end:
just don't give up everyone. You'll find that certain someone i can promise you that. Everyone deserves to be happy and just because you aren't happy doesn't mean you won't end up happy. I promise you that it'll all turn out great in the end.